If you are new to the world of the BDSM escort then I think it can only help you to give you some pointers on how to ensure that the date you have is what you expect and delivers everything that you need. The key to it all is communication, communication and respect.

The first thing that you need to be clear on are the services that you would like your BDSM escort to provide you with. This is not a list of things that will happen, but a kind of menu that you can choose from. The things to look out for is what the girl offers. These may be listed as interest and will almost always include a list of things she will not do. If what you want is on this list then this is not the girl for you. If what you want is neither on her interests list nor on her no list then I would suggest you contact her and ask.

When you have found the BDSM escort that offers the service you require then you should secure your booking. The next thing you need to do is communicate. Do this however you both feel comfortable, it will usually be via email or telephone but some girls may even do face to face. Discuss the kinds of things that you want and your limits and get her to tell you hers. If you have a scenario in mind then discuss it here, if not she will more than likely invent one for you. This is because it makes much more real, having a reason to spank someones ass rather than just to say now I will spank you!

When the date with your BDSM escort occurs, you must remember her limits. If she says no touching then she means no touching, and if you bring up water-sports for the first time in the dungeon and it is something on her no list then you will have one very unhappy BDSM escort and one underwhelming date. Follow these simple guidelines and your date will provide you with all that you desire.